Born with it!

I never totally got it when pre-kids, people would say: they come out with a personality all of their own. Ok, I get it now. It is so amazing and fun and exhausting and wild to watch the personalities of our little boys unfold. They certainly live up to the title of this post because man are we in the midst of a personality explosion - all their own! These are unfolding more and more, but the interesting thing is that although they have of course evolved in magnitude from their early teeny tiny days, the core of them has remained the same since birth.

Particularly, Colin. (More on Logan for the next post). Our feisty yet sweet first born is sure strong willed, independent, particular and confident. He showed signs of this early on, but that has grown and grown. Everything and I mean, EVERYTHING is a negotiation and his brain works in ways that I literally never knew a 4 year old could even consider! Take his justification of why he NEEDED to bring 2 toys to swim class for instance. After many rounds of affirming he was to only bring 1 toy, he finally reluctantly agreed only to turn around 30 seconds later with 2 toys in tow (a motorcycle and small toy bird) and tell me that he knew he was only supposed to bring 1, but the bird would have no way home! And because of this, the motorcycle was something he just had to bring!!! Blew my mind.

Also, he most definitely has certain ways of how to do things, and an orderly fashion about him. I can tell you, this does not come from me! :) If something he deems important is not done is the manner in which he feels necessary (vitamins distributed the same each morning, underwear not hanging from the knobs of his dresser etc.), he not only notices, but it unnerves him! I keep telling myself all this will serve him down the road - his organized and confident self - and that this is a kid that clearly needs to exert himself. In the meantime, we are living the life of learning boundaries and consistency....and facing the meltdowns with the knowing that this too shall pass :)

While I was taking in groceries from the car, Colin (unbeknownst to me) unloaded the first bag in Colin-like fashion)! ;)